Alice Grange, The Tapping Detective
Certified Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) & Matrix Reimprinting Coach
Would you prefer to thrive, instead of merely survive?
Being a survivor means that you developed strategies to help you deal with the past and have some control over your emotional reactions to those events. I was in that position for many years.
Eventually I tired of being a survivor. Life was sort of OK but I was still haunted by the events of the past. It became a grueling struggle to keep those memories in perspective until I decided I wanted more out of life than just survival. I wanted to move on with my life and leave the traumas of the past behind. Where they belong.
During a 4 year period, over 20 of my friends, family members and canine companions left the planet, (I stopped counting at 20)! Both parents died very, very slowly, from Lung Cancer, Strokes and Pneumonias… One particularly dreadful Christmas/New Years, my mother and dog died within a few days of each other. The next year a friend killed himself in December, so I has some experience with grief!
When I was first introduced to Emotional Freedom Technique, (EFT), my life was a mess. I was full of sadness, resentments, frustrations, insecurities and seriously depressed. My mother had been emotionally and physically ill for most of her life with bipolar depression, suicidal thoughts, alcoholism and addiction to multiple drugs prescribed by multiple Doctors. I did not have a good relationship with Mom, beginning with my premature birth. I was in an incubator for 6 weeks, never breast fed, and rarely held by Mom. Because my maternal grandmother was not particularly loving or kind towards her own daughter, my Mom never learned how to be a great parent. As a result I too ended up suffering from low self esteem and rejection.
While searching for help, I found a gifted EFT coach who helped solve the mysteries of my unhappines while teaching me how to resolve inner conflicts. Nothing has helped the way EFT has. The result: I am now WAY happier, considerably more content and much healthier
Alice Grange, EFT & Matrix Reimprinting Coach
Old friends often remark on how much I have changed. It is apparently very evident! Having had a series of mostly dreadful co-dependent relationships over the past 30 plus years, (the lowest point was when I got involved with a drug addict/alcoholic/stalker), for the past 8 years I have been in the best relationship of my life with a lovely man, who not only is supportive, interesting and fun, but who also loves to dance and travel as much as I do! And, for the past few years, I actually been known to enjoy Christmas and New Years!
Now I help others who also experienced adverse childhoods, to find the same relief You too can co-create happier, healthier relationships with others, and a life consistent with your values, dreams and desires.
My Journey with EFT and Matrix Reimprinting (MR)
Since learning about EFT and taking numerous EFT and MR courses, (certified with both EFTUniverse – where my ‘Mentor’ is Dr. Dawson Church, Author of The Genie in Your Genes and EFTInternational) I have worked with people dealing with a vast variety of issues. My passion is guiding and supporting other women who had difficult relationships with their difficult mothers, survivors of emotional abuse, sexual trauma, and others whose childhood has left them with unresolved issues, relationship problems and/or overwhelming sadness, stuckness and isolation. EFT recipients discover how to quickly release the hold limiting beliefs have while overcoming fear, grief, pain, anxiety and shame – allowing you to replace the life you have been enduring, with the life of your dreams. Imagine freeing yourself from your painful past; creating the emotional space needed in order to live the life you have longed for but have never felt was possible, until now!
The reason I LOVE working with EFT and MR is because they work! It is so wonderful watching faces change during sessions; from looking tight and tense to looking relaxed and happy! Many clients have explored other therapies that ended up re-traumatizing them so it has been a welcome relief to find themselves laughing instead. Witnessing the mental, physical and emotional shifts that happen as people experience AHA! moments is so life affirming. To be able to give the gift of empwering positivec hanges in outlook is deeply satisfying.
- Non-Violent Communication and Compassionate Listening Trainings,
- Mediation and Negotiation at the Justice Institute of BC, (which comes in handy when helping couples, parents and children)
- was an active Peer Counsellor for many years,
- attended many workshops given by experts and thought leaders like Dr. Gabor Mate, author of When the Body Says No: The Costs of Hidden Stress, Jane Middleton-Mox, author of Children of Trauma, Dr. Bruce Lipton, author of The Biology of Belief,…
Please feel free to ask any questions that are not answered here.
Contact me by email, (email@example.com), or call 250-702-7570 to book your Introductory Session today. I have a home office in Courtenay, in the Comox Valley, on Vancouver Island, BC, Canada and I also work online, worldwide via Skype and Zoom.
People who have tapped with me both online and in person say the only difference is that my hugs are better in person!