“Talking with Alice, I realized that I was stuck in old assumptions arising out of a trauma in my childhood where I learned to take care of everyone else. I took over where my mother at the time failed to support me and others.’
– Irene Huntley, Vancouver Island, BC.
Was your mother unlikely to ever win the “Mother of the Year Award”?
- Do you suspect that some of the lessons you learned from your mother’s words, or actions, may be preventing you from having happy, healthy relationships – with your spouse, with friends and family, at work?
- Do you suffer from a deep seated fear that you are not good enough, or perhaps you don’t feel worthy of love, or success – at home, or at work?
- Are you still reacting with oh-so familiar feelings of guilt and shame?
- Do you self sabotage your dreams with procrastination and negative self talk?
If much of the above is true but you fear that delving into the past will be frustrating, useless and too painful to bear, here is some good news for you!
New understandings of Brain Plasticity, Quantum Physics and Energy Psychology, coupled with principles of Traditional Chinese Medicine, allow us to QUICKLY, EASILY AND PERMANENTLY remove emotional baggage from your past, (even if previous attempts to heal have left you feeling worse than you did before you started.) We now have scientific proof that it actually is possible to quantifiably, positively change our habitual thoughts, our unhealthy bodies, and even our genes, (and yes, our jean size too!)
Our most influential relationship is our primary one, the lifelong relationship we have with our mothers.
Children’s developing brains are like sponges, taking in the lessons and the limiting beliefs the adults in our lives teach us. (Whether meant intentionally or modelled completely unconsciously, we learned those lessons and automatically mimic our parents behaviour, even, irritatingly, when we didn’t like the behaviour as children). However this no longer has to mean an inherited life sentence of unhappy relationships, or stress filled lives.
We all deserve to heal, we all CAN heal, and with EFT and Matrix Reimprinting it has become both fast and feasible to heal. (See Tapping Testimonials).
Heal From Your Narcissistic Mother, (& other Mother Issues).
If you are tired of telling the same old tales of woe and repeating the same relationship mistakes, (or attracting the same type of partners), and recognize that you could use some help to take the masks you have been wearing off your face, to quickly replace them with permanent relief, genuine smiles and likely some laughter too, then contact me today to discuss dates and logistics!
Together we will work to rid you of whatever you really want to be rid of, once and for all. By letting go of, and reframing, the defining moments from your past that have been holding you back, you will come to have the emotional space and energy to allow you to create a life MUCH more to your liking.
It IS possible to recover from intergenerational wounds passed on from a mother who was too wounded herself to be a good parent. How she acted, what she said, what she ate, and how she felt about herself, and about her children, provided us with a role model to emulate in our own lives.
Our view of the world, and our place in it, is based on our mother’s beliefs, however limiting; and her sense of self worth, however negative.
For those of us with profoundly wounded parents, (whether they were/are drug addicted, narcissistic, depressed, controlling, constantly complaining, belittling….), it has often been difficult to treat ourselves with respect, to believe that we are good enough to succeed in life. For some it has felt impossible to overcome the anxiety, self sabotage and procrastination. Yet it IS Possible
If both members of a couple, or of a Parent/Child Duo are equally motivated to improve their lives and their relationship, my training in Conflict Resolution, Mediation, Non Violent Communications could be of assistance.
While many of my client’s parents remained together, the one thing they have in common is that those parents would not have received the prize for parent of the year and their children continue to suffer into adulthood with insecurities, anxieties, grief and guilt as they perpetuate what was done to them.
The truth is, there is nothing like the feeling of inner safety, confidence and joy that comes from having faced the issues and patterns learned from an unhealthy mother. It truly clears the way for you to embody the brilliance within you.
The bottom line is that when you commit to doing the work of healing your own relationship with your mother, (whether she is still alive or dead), and get the skilled support that you need, (a crucial factor), you can dismantle the most fundamental barriers to self empowerment.
Learn how to make self affirming promises to yourself that you actually follow through on, to allow for the attraction and abundance of whatever it is you DO want in your life.
Become the wonderful person you’re meant to be. Transform into healthy adulthood and leave your painful childhood behind.